Wednesday, November 11, 2009
How did I get stuck working my butt off, and staying an extra half hour? Don't they know that I want to spend the afternoon with Tanya? Ha! and maybe if we have time run over to see Kolbee(our nephew) while he is at "Grandma's." Little guy! we hardly ever see him anymore now that we live on the opposite end of town. How great was it being able to get back from work and having him there waiting to play cars, or ride bikes, or go for a golf cart ride. And Sunday afternoons! all the food and people coming over. . .
Into my head popped the Sunday afternoon when I spent most of the afternoon trying to get away from Tanya so I could ask her parents for permission to marry her. There was a brief flash to the day I bought the ring, being so nervous I would lose it or get stolen, that I actually started locking my truck, and proceeded to forget my keys in it, and had to call AAA. The box, and the ring inside of it, was stuck in my sock as Kolbee pulled "Grandma" into the barn for something. I saw my chance and darted in after them to show her, and get her blessing. She knew something was up as I produced the box. Her reaction wasn't what I expected. Her mother, ours, now, is fairly stoic, and I watched as she teared up and then spontaneously hugged me as Kolbee looked on, intuitively knowing something was different. Now her Dad was slightly different. He looked at me, as only a father of the girl you haven't yet married, can look. There was a shade of skepticism as he got up, to my silent motioning of him into the kitchen. As soon as the words spilled out, his demeanor changed too. He had the biggest grin I had seen on his face prior and immediately shook my hand. I remember all the emotions vividly, the nerves,(yes I actually got nervous), the joy and the sudden sense of family.
It was an awesome day, and two days later I would have a better one when to her surprise, I proposed. She had no idea I had the ring, or the permission to do so, though she knew it eventually was gonna happen. I have no idea why my thoughts went that direction, but I am so glad they did. When my thoughts track that way, thinking about the girl, so awesome to be the driving force behind the events of the previous paragraphs, is enough, even on a rough day, to put a smile on my face.
Oh, and that proposal? well, thats a story for another time...
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Life lately...
*Honeymoon to the Dominican!
Our trip was FABULOUS! We had so much fun and got some much needed relaxing in. Our days were filled with relaxing mornings by the pool, naps in the afternoon on the beach, and some great meals! The craziest part to me was how long it took me to actually be able to relax. Since we couldn't have our cell phones on, and didn't have a computer next to us 24/7, I found myself so bored the first couple days!! Which is actually kinda funny, because I was almost positive it would have been Tim having the seperation anxiety from society. I survived though :)
*Househunting:
Before we left for our trip and ever since, our lives have been almost consumed with trying to buy a house! We have a few in mind in the Hamilton/Holland area, but we need the pre-approval process to be complete first. Thats been a very long and aggrivating process! Without going into details, lets just say its been one roadblock after another, after another, after another, etc. The positive note is that it sounds like the tax credit is going to be extended, so the pressure to have everything done by the end of the month is off!
*Bible study:
Every Wednesday night I'm so extraordinarily blessed to get to meet with some AMAZING women for a Bible study on the women in the Bible. Most of the group is part of Tim's side of the family; a sister and a couple cousins, and others are friends and co-workers. We have such a blast and I feel like I'm learning a lot and getting to dive deeper in the word, which I'm ashamed to say isn't something I've always done. I'm always looking forward to Wednesday nights to see the girls!
*Holiday season!!
Its finallly holiday season! I love this time of the year, its always so full of joy and giving and gatherings and of course the grand-daddy of them all, Christmas! Last year so much time was spent on the wedding that I'm so happy to actually get to feel like it'll be Thanksgiving and Christmas and get to fully celebrate both! I know a lot of people think its a little early to begin thinking and planning, but to me its never too early! I love seeing Christmas items in the store, the sales, the music started to play... ahhh its so fun!
*Work:
Work for both of us have been going well. I've actually just started a temporary 2nd job to help add some money into the savings account. I'll be working at Sears Portrait Studio in the evenings until Christmas. So far its only a couple nights a week, and really I've only gone once for some internet/computer training. I'm a little nervous, seeing as how I kind of freak out and get full of anxiety when I start something new in my life, but I figure I can do anything for 2 months so I'll make my way through it! And more than likely, as with most things, I'll end up really loving it lol.
So, ladies and gentlemen, thats about all for now! Hopefully it won't be so long until the next post. Also, I really pray the next post will be about something really exciting, like we're pre-approved for a mortgage.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
September.... Shut UP!
However, I'm still a huge fan of fall! Had I not loved Christmas so much, I think I would have gotten married in the fall with pretty browns and oranges and yellows. I love a good fall bonfire, with jeans and hoodies and slightly chilled weather. I also love the whole "back to school" atmosphere. I kind of miss getting my books, moving to a new dorm/apartment, starting new classes, buying new school supplies, etc. I didn't realize how much I missed it until a couple girls I work with were getting ready to start college again. I don't miss it enough, however, to go back ;)
Other things to look forward to this fall:
*Anniversary trip/Honeymoon to the Dominican in October!
*My birthday, always a fabulous event! :)
*Fall colors!!
*Possibly buying a house (Crossing our fingers and praying hard about this one!)
*Tim's sister Linda moving home from Kentucky this week (and bringing our dog with her)
*Football starting and baseball playoffs... Go Tiges GO!
Thursday, August 27, 2009
On the road again...
A little Burt Lake background: This is the place my family vacationed EVERY summer from before I was born until about 12 years ago when my grandparents sold their cottage. I hadn't been back since, so I was beyond excited to go! While we stayed at a different part of the lake at a different resort, much was the same and childhood memories came flooding back to my brother and I! I even insisted on buying my 5 year old nephew a minnow net, because thats what we used to do.
So on the 2nd day of swimming, Kolbee and Tim put their suits on, and they matched again! Same color shirt and all!
Mom and dad rented a pontoon boat for the family
We went to Hoppies!!! Its a restaurant on the other side of the lake that can drive your boat to and walk about 100ft the the restaurant. They have awesome food and it was another "childhood memory"
We had such an awesome time! While it was a little crowded (9 people, including 2 pre-teen girls and a 5 yr. old) it was definatley something we would love to do again next year! Sadly, no fish were caught, including minnows.Monday, August 17, 2009
Vacation with a Purpose
The Kitchen
So, we stayed in a different place than years past, one with 3 bedrooms. This meant Tim and I, now married, would be given our own room. We were excited about this, then we saw our room:Twin beds!!
Our first day to the beach!
This was the lake on the first day... you can't really tell but the waves were huge! The water was also warm...
Tim and I on the tammy train to take us back to the lodge
The girls in the back of the car after lunch at Sam's Joint
Spaghetti night! Delicious!
Linda decided to play in the water... she later went swimming in this same outfit (minus the ipod)
Apples to Apples with the Arends family
Sunset with the one I love
Sunday, August 16, 2009
And that's a great place to start. I was awake this morning around 6:30ish this morning, when my wife kissed me goodbye. I laid in bed for an hour or so, and with a few minor setbacks, I eventually got my wits about me enough to head to "The Shoe" for the previously mentioned deliciousness. Breakfast is my favorite meal of the day, and The Wooden Shoe Restaurant is second to none. The real reason I went however, was I wanted to see the blond haired waitress I have had a crush on for the last several years. Last night I had the privilege of taking her out to dinner and then some shopping for an upcoming tropical getaway we have planned. I came around the corner last night to grab a shirt before we left, and spotted her in a little black dress, and her recently tanned skin, and her big blues eyes, and the beginning of a thought started to form in my head. We went to CrazyHorse for dinner and splurged just alittle more than we might, and then hit Kohls and then DQ to split a blizzard. We then took the short drive home playfully arguing over who was eating the greater share of the ice cream. Back at my apartment, we turned on the Tiger game and made short work of what was left. Game, well in hand, my date grabbed a book she had just bought, and not too long after, went to get some sleep since she had her first day back at work in about a week.
My wife in bed, and the Tigers victorious, I put the pieces of my earlier thought together. Vacation was great. We went to the beach almost everyday, the weather was perfect and Lake Michigan was clear and warm enough to swim in when the sun got to hot. I loved sleeping in, and ate a lot (maybe too much) good food. Hanging out in close proximity with my family is always an adventure, and the speakers were great. But it hit me. Coming home isn't something to be sad about. It wasn't just "awl-right" (inside joke, stupid hootie). Its awesome. I love my life, its definitely more than I deserve. I love my apartment. I love the peace and quiet. If it allowed dogs, i'd want to stay a couple more years. I missed our bed, (In Muskegon we had to a room ourselves... with two single beds...)I love the town where I live, I can be at the beach in 5 minutes if I am so inclined and the people around here, are my kind of people. I got great family, the ones I was born with, and the ones I inherited. I feel like they are two halves that balance out the person I am. Then there is Tanya. Last night I got to go on a date with a beautiful, sexy, incredible girl, who can turn my head, just in the hallway of our little place. In a cocktail dress and heels, or blue jeans and a t-shirt. She can amaze me anytime she wants too, and she amazes me even without trying. We have two more vacations this year. One up north, and one to the Dominican. I am excited for both. Just dont ask me if I am more excited than i am about my day-to-day life around here. Becuase to be honest? its a tough call...